Thursday, October 7, 2010

SELF-C0NTR0L

"One thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead." -Philippians 3:13

Sometimes the past is the hardest thing to let go of; letting go of things that have hurt us, made us bitter, turned us into people that we don't wanna be.  It's hard not to bring up the past when your angry or just in a conversation- reference.  And it sucks when your trying to move on, but your past just keeps haunting you.  When you want things to go away, but they just don't seem to listen.  Tyler and I have both had kinda crappy pasts.  But the simple fact is that the past doesn't matter.  We love each other and the only thing that matter besides that is that our futures are the only things that we need to focus on.  Throwing our pasts back up in each other's face does nothing but cause confrontation.  Other girls and other guys could never come between us, especially right now.   We both know that we love each other and that we are right for each other.  We also know that it's ok to love people in our pasts but we know that each one is nothing more than an "I love you as in I care about you."  Totally different than being in love.  We have the confidence in our future because "Love never fails...And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love.  But the greatest of these is love." - 1 Corinthians 13: 8a & 13.

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